Yes! You can be bitter!

Be bitter about the rain everyday, or all the work you have to do. Be bitter about the dirty dishes in the sink, or about how you don't like the person who makes your friend truly happy. it is your right to be bitter about whatever you want. however, please realize that people have the right to react to bitterness, and have the right to be hurt.
Sometimes you need to tell a friends when thier fly is down, or that they have a great big chunk of spinach in their teeth. Somethings just need be said....others don't.

Words can hurt -even if you dont intend them to.

I'm hurting, and I am frustrated in trying to figure out how to fix this hurt.
I don't know if you realize that the words you said struck my heart and that i havent been able to think of anything else since then.

this being said, I hope we can make things better.